Soft attacks never experienced by the majority

In the coverage of the Milwaukee Sikh Temple murders, there was this that we remember. Maddow asks boilerplate question, gets extraordinary answer: 

 Amardeep Kaleka, son of the murdered Sikh Temple president  [The Rachel Maddow Show, 8-6-2012]

It’s important for those of us who have never experienced this, and never will, to hear that this is a common experience for immigrants.